COME ALIVE

Dear Survivor, This is a letter that should never have to be written; a note that should not have to be penned. But given the circumstances, there are some things I want you to hear and need you to know. I am so sorry for what you lived through; what you experienced. And for what you are forced to endure every day. I am sorry that your story has been diminished to a two word hashtag. I am sorry that the most terrifying moments of your life continue to be called into question. I am sorry that you are criticized for not saying 'no'; for not fighting back; for not leaving. I am sorry that you are told, repeatedly, that it was your fault or that you asked for it because you let them into your place or stayed at theirs. I am sorry that you are led to believe that you actually wanted it because you flirted back or kissed them. I am sorry that you wrestle with the lies that you must have liked it because you engaged in foreplay or had an orgasm. I am sorry that you ar